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...happy birthday to you...

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Oh, thank you so much!
Thank you! Thank you!

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Hey... happy birthday!
Congratulations!

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Happy birthday.

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Happy birthday.

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Apparently, there are some people
who just don't get hints...

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why should I have to say anything?
Couldn't he see I didn't want a hug?

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Honestly,
I just wish he would stop.

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If this was an isolated incident
between these two co-workers,

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it wouldn't be considered
sexual harassment.

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However, since it was obvious,
she did not welcome the contact,

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it is certainly inappropriate.

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Because appropriate touching varies
so much among different people,

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the best advice is to keep close
personal touch to a minimum

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and always on a professional level.

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For example, a congratulatory
handshake or fist bump.

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Beyond that, unless you
are absolutely sure

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that your contact is welcomed
by the other person,

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it's best...
not to touch them at all.