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I mean, there's gotta be some
way you can speak up for yourself

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without coming off as a whiner or..

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you know, get-ting into another fight.

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You need to stay calm,

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be confident, state the facts and say
exactly what you're feeling.

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It's hard but you have
to speak up for yourself.

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Believe me...I know what
you're going through...

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I've been trying to eat healthier and I
must have mentioned something at work.

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Now, I wish I hadn't.

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It's like every time Jason sees me
eating he has to make a comment.

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It's like working with the food police.
Once on the lips, forever on the hips!

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Yeah...you caught me.

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I actually haven't had any sweets for
a couple of weeks, so I thought...

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Hey, you don't have to explain to me.

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Hey, Lee, you better grab a donut.
I think Sharon actually left us one.

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Geeze, Jason! You don't have
to be a jerk about it!

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Oh, lighten up! You need to learn to
take a joke! I was just kidding!

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Jason wouldn't stop.

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He kept teasing me and putting pictures
on my door and things on my desk.

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At first, I was willing to let it go, but
after I saw what he posted online...

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I realized things had gotten
way out of hand.

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I told him I saw what he posted online.

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He acted like it was
all just a big joke.

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I told him it wasn't funny
and it needed to stop.

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I also asked my co-workers to tell me if
he does anything behind my back again.

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Well, it's been a couple of months
since anything has happened, so...

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I think he got the message.

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It's good you spoke up.

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Maybe he'll stop bullying you now that
he knows he's been caught.

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Have you tried talking to your
co-workers about what Carly is doing?

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Yeah...from what you describe they've
got to see what's going on.

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Has anyone said anything
to Carly or to management?

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Not that I know of.

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Carly told me I should toughen up
be-cause stress was part of the job.

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Well, after that, I didn't feel
like I could talk to her

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or anybody else about
it so...I gave up.